This, That and Then

Continuing with the writings of Robert H. Hoge’s “Thoughts on This and That”, Madeline established her own blog thus giving it a modern twist. Her focus is on Family Business, History, Strategic Planning, Training/Education, Governance and Legacy.

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Who Was Lunsford Richardson, and How Is He Related to the Hoge Family?

Who is the legendary Lunsford Richardson? His name is etched in the annals of American pharmaceutical history, celebrated as the innovative mind behind Vicks VapoRub. His entrepreneurial spirit and dedication to creating accessible remedies for common ailments have made him a household name. Yet, his legacy is intertwined with another prominent family—the Hoge family. We will explore the life of Lunsford Richardson, his groundbreaking contributions to medicine, and the intriguing connection to the Hoge family.

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How Family Council Meetings Changed Our Lives for the Better

Are you thinking about holding family meetings? Perhaps your financial advisor suggested it, or you’ve heard about other families that have found them beneficial. While getting started may seem straightforward, it's important to understand their value, how to conduct them, and the benefits they offer. In our experience, initiating family meetings has significantly improved our lives.

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Don’t be a Grinch: The Transformative Power of Generosity During the Holiday Season

This blog explores the transformative power of generosity during the holiday season, drawing insights from Adam Grant's research on giving in Give and Take and lessons from the classic story of The Grinch Who Stole Christmas. It delves into the benefits of giving, strategies for sustainable generosity, and how a giving mindset can foster success and fulfillment year-round.

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Big Goal Setting: Engaging Activities to Help You Dream and Achieve

This blog presents 14 creative and engaging activities to help you set and achieve your biggest goals. From vision boarding and life wheel assessments to backward planning and accountability systems, these strategies make goal setting practical and inspiring. Activities like bucket list creation and time capsules encourage dreaming big, while tools such as obstacle mapping and goal ladders break ambitions into manageable steps. Whether you’re reflecting during an annual retreat or celebrating milestones with rewards, these methods guide you toward turning aspirations into actionable plans. Start your journey to success with these innovative approaches!

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Purpose-Driven Goals: A Roadmap to a Fulfilling Life

Imagine yourself as a child and being asked about your dream travel destination instead of the usual question about your future profession. At age six, my parents introduced me to the empowering philosophy of "The World is Yours." This ignited a lifelong passion for setting big goals, which encouraged me to dream and achieve those aspirations.

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Belle Hampton: A Ghostly Historical Journey into Haunted Legends

Imagine stepping into a world where history and the supernatural intertwine, where every flicker of candlelight hints at past stories. Belle Hampton is not just a historic home; it is a vessel of lore and legends, a place where the living can glimpse the spectral echoes of yesteryears. From its grand halls to its shadowy corners, every inch of Belle Hampton whispers tales of its illustrious and eerie past. This historic mansion, with its haunting beauty and enigmatic charm, has captivated the imaginations of countless visitors and continues to be a beacon for those drawn to the mysteries of the unseen. The mansion's legends, intertwined with its charm, make Belle Hampton a fascinating blend of the supernatural and the historic.

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Empowering Family and Family Enterprise with AI: A Guide to Future-Proofing Your Legacy

Not using AI? Think again! Artificial Intelligence (AI) is changing the game for industries worldwide, and family businesses are no exception. By integrating AI into our family story, enhancing communication among us, and improving succession planning, we can harmonize our heritage while strengthening our business. This guide delves into how we, as a family, can leverage AI to ensure our business prospers for future generations while maintaining both harmony and efficiency.

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Are You Living Your Values? A Journey of Integrity and Purpose

Growing up in a family business taught me the importance of living my values daily. From a young age, I was surrounded by an environment where trust was paramount. The sight of neatly stacked, ironed cash—ready for daily bank deposits—was a constant, yet I never once considered taking even a dollar for myself. The family trusted each other, and that trust was a core value.

Values are often passed down through generations, and mine were shaped by my great aunt. A widow since 1924, she had faced the hardships of the Great Depression and the loss of her husband. Through resilience, she maintained the integrity of our family business. She believed that true character is revealed when no one is watching, a lesson that profoundly impacted me. For her, honesty wasn’t just a policy—it was a way of life.

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Strengthening Families in an Age of Entitlement: A Guide to Resilience

In the past, particularly in the 1960s, children were expected to prove their value. My parents required us to complete our weekend chores before we could go out to play. They also checked if we had finished our homework after school. Growing up in a family business, we were expected to work regular hours before or after school to help. Tasks included cleaning the shelves, taking inventory of the products, running the cash register, and making deposits to the bank. They never asked me how I felt about contributing to the family, and I never asked why I had to work in the business or do chores because I knew the answer: "That is your job."

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6 Must-Read Books for Families and Family Enterprises: Unlocking the Power of Different Forms of Capital

As an author and avid reader, I have become frustrated with my recent book choices. Some were even recommendations from colleagues, but unfortunately, they disappointed me. After 22 hours of listening to an audiobook and waiting for it to improve, I had enough. Before I read the next book, I will assess it critically. I want to avoid books with authors trying to push specific agendas or political views leaning too heavily in one direction. I am looking for books in various genres that help me develop different forms of knowledge to enhance my personal growth and reach my full potential.

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How to Craft Your Life's Purpose in One Sentence: A Guide to Finding Your “Why”

The question "What is your sentence?" cuts through the noise like a laser beam in a world brimming with endless opportunities, countless distractions, and myriad paths to explore. It challenges us to distill the essence of our lives into a single, powerful statement. This is more than just a personal mission statement; it's a declaration of purpose, a guiding star that aligns your actions with your deepest values and aspirations.

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Dreams vs. Goals: Crafting a Roadmap for Your Future

In life's journey, dreams and goals are seen as vital guides, steering us toward our desired future. While both concepts are often used interchangeably, understanding the distinction between dreams and goals is crucial for effective planning and personal development. Dreams ignite our imagination and inspire us to reach for the stars, but they remain distant aspirations without actionable goals. We will explore the difference between dreams and goals and how you can craft a roadmap that achieves success.

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Never Forget Your Dreams: Developing Plans that Surpass a Lifetime

In the Black Hills of South Dakota, the awe-inspiring Crazy Horse Memorial is a testament to the enduring spirit of the North American Indians. This monument initiated in 1948 inside an army surplus tent, is not just a carving on a mountain; it's a beacon of hope, a symbol of resilience, and a celebration of a rich cultural heritage that we should all be proud of and refuse to let be forgotten. It's a reminder that hope and resilience can prevail even in the face of significant challenges, and it's a celebration of our rich cultural heritage that connects us all.

Inspired by Mt. Rushmore, Chief Henry Standing Bear imagined a statue of Crazy Horse because “Indian chiefs would like the white man to know the red man has great heroes, too.” In 1940, he approached sculptor Korczak Ziolkowski for the enormous task. Knowing that this project would last longer than his lifetime, Korczak carefully laid out the entire plan.

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Major Dunbar Howe and Sarah: Love, War, and the Tragic Loss

A worn, discolored tombstone sits in the family cemetery, Sunnyside, marking the burial site of Sarah Boyd Logan Shepherd Howe. Adorning the stone is a calla lily, symbolizing majestic beauty and marriage. Inscribed on her stone is the quote, “There will be rest in Heaven.” Indeed, life at that time was strenuous: taking care of 11 children, sewing, weaving, knitting, supervising the servants, and ensuring “useful tasks were being done after chores” for all the children and servants. Did she live in constant fear of the Indians since her great-great-grandfather, Colonel James Patton, was killed in the horrific Indian massacre at Draper’s Meadows? It would be reasonable to be anxious after losing three children and a grandchild; it might have been a burden too significant to bear on this earth.

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Reconnecting with a Family Member After an Estate Dispute: A Step-by-Step Guide

"But she promised it to me!" or "Is the estate going to pay for that?" or even "This is unfair; I deserve more." These types of disputes often happen when the patriarch or matriarch dies. The family can become splintered during the estate settlement, even as early as the funeral. Family fallouts are challenging and particularly complex in wealthy families, where financial dynamics often add another layer of difficulty. However, it doesn’t take much financial wealth to bring out the worst in people when hidden agendas rear their ugly heads. Re-engaging with a family member after a fallout is crucial for personal well-being and maintaining family harmony and stability. We will explore practical strategies to mend relationships within families, ensuring a thoughtful and holistic approach to reconciliation. Remember, the end goal is not just to resolve the conflict but to strengthen the family bond and create a more harmonious future.

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What is Family Ethics? Preserving a Legacy of Trust and Responsibility

The quote 'It's not personal; it's only business' from The Godfather movie, often used to illustrate the impersonal and ruthless nature of decision-making in organized crime, was a frequent topic of discussion in my college business ethics class. However, in the context of family ethics, it's not just about making decisions; it's about upholding a legacy of trust and responsibility, a set of core values that elevate a family to a higher standard.

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